Service, Family, and Community
In Loving Memory of Willard Irvin Haithcock, Jr. (1944 - 2021)
Willard Irvin Haithcock, Jr. (1944–2021) was a long-time supporter, board member, and beloved presence at the Henderson Family YMCA. Born in Kinston, NC, he graduated from UNC Chapel Hill with a degree in business and dedicated much of his life to his family, faith, and community.
Willard met his wife Nancy while still in school, and their 55-year marriage was a testament to devotion. He cared deeply for his children, Julia and Heath, and never missed a game or event if he could help it. A proud grandfather, he traveled far and wide to support his granddaughter’s sports and competitions.
A man of simple pleasures, Willard loved fast cars, golf, and a good buffet. Despite his success, he never owned a cell phone or computer, and carried his gym clothes in the same worn duffle bag for years — politely declining offers for a new one.
He was also a hard worker, owning and operating Sunset Gardens Cemetery, where he remained hands-on into his 70s.
Willard believed in the YMCA's mission of serving all in the community. In his honor, his family established two annual scholarships at the Henderson Family YMCA to continue his legacy of service and friendship.
Purpose and Goals
The Willard Irvin Haithcock Membership Scholarship supports individuals and families who demonstrate a need for YMCA membership and can benefit from its mission to build a healthy spirit, mind, and body for all. This scholarship aims to foster community engagement, wellness, and a sense of belonging.
Eligibility & Criteria
To apply for the scholarship, applicants must meet the following criteria:
- Positive impact within the YMCA community
- Complete the scholarship application
- Applications will be accepted starting March 15, 2026
Application Deadline & Award Date
- Application Deadline: April 19, 2026
- Award Announcement: May 4, 2026
The generosity of the Willard Irvin Haithcock Membership Scholarship, helps support community members in need of YMCA membership and ensures that Willard’s legacy of kindness and commitment to wellness continues to impact others.